The heat is upon us in Raleigh, N.C., which is a wonderful reminder that summer is here!
It is also a gentle reminder to plan your summer vacation. With summer vacation planning, you need to pull out your child custody order or your parenting agreement. Be sure to review it to see what is required for vacations. Often there is a required notice period to give the other parent. Since those notice periods can vary, it’s good to take a look at it now and plan accordingly.
If you find that you have missed the deadline for notice or that you want to plan something that would not follow the agreement you have in place, call the other parent and see if you can agree on the change. If an agreement is reached, just be sure to send an email memorializing your agreement.
If you get a call from the other parent about making a change, remember that parenting is a two-way street. You may need a favor soon . . . not to mention don’t you want your child to have a fun vacation during the summer?
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Since 2006, I have been certified by the NC Dispute Resolution Committee as a Family Financial Mediator. Ever since I began practicing family law, I knew that I wanted to become a mediator. Why? Instead of fighting for my client, I wanted to empower parties to resolve their own disputes. As a party’s attorney, I can only do so much, and I have an ethical obligation to represent my client. Mediation is one of the best tools for people to resolve their own issues.
In Wake County, we are lucky to have a wonderful group of attorneys who work as mediators. All of these attorneys have been practicing for 15 plus years, so I knew I would have to pay my dues before I could be considered by our bar as an effective mediator. I’m still paying my dues, but sometimes I found myself doubting the process and my skills as a mediator.
Recently I completed a mediation, and after we reached a resolution, both sides commented on how much they appreciated my services and how their expectations were pretty low when entering the mediation. Weeks after the mediation, I received the following email from one of the parties:
Mrs Frye,
Good Morning. I just wanted to take a moment to Thank you for your time and effort you put into the Mediation process between myself and my husband. You made this part of the processes extremely comfortable.
Honestly I didn’t walk into your office with high hope in coming to any agreement with the person who pursued me in court. Your amazing ability to talk, communicate understand and listen had the impact to reaching an agreement. I feel fortunate we got you as the Mediator in the court order. God forbid if I know anyone going through this process in the future I would highly recommend you.
Thank you for everything you did while meeting with us. Helping ending this long hard battled I endured.
My sprit and drive have been renewed! I was thrilled to help these people, and I hope to help more people in the near future.
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On October 29, 2009, NBI will host an advanced family law education class for attorneys, mediators, paralegals, and therapists at the Hilton North Raleigh. Katherine Frye and Lynn Bruce will teach a session entitled “Custodial Evaluations in Custody and Support Litigation”. Our firm’s attorneys will be joined by Judith Guibert, Dr. Abigail Pressel, Kathryn Schiller and Judge Debra Sasser in teaching this advanced seminar.
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